Tuesday, June 8, 2010
Finally, the 提亲 day is here!
Been asking around! Been asking frens! Been searching the internet on what is to be done during 提亲 day!
But who knows everything went on very smoothly! Or I would put as "Short and Sweet", even we are not too sure what is to be done!
Based on whatever that is found on the internet, the groom's parents will send a matchmaker to present gifts to the bride's family and ask for marriage. Then both side will start to negotiate on the terms and try to come to conclusion.
However, our 提亲 day is machiam like some "Meet The Parents" session! Just got one more person, which is Darling's aunt, Er Gu joining in. And the gifts that was presented to my parents are just some fruits.
And basically there's no NEGOTIATION at all! Or its more like going there to TAKE ORDERS! But I guess my mum's quotation is reasonable
The whole session lasted not more than half an hour! Its the chatting session that took up more time =P
Even though the 提亲 process is fast and efficient, but I can feel my headache is starting already! Need to start preparing for all the stuffs... Haiz...
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